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There is an island near Hawaii where there are no separations between the pairs.

The researchers tried to study the phenomenon with great dismay and found that these couples thanking each other every day for every thing that was a component of the couple for each other. For example, the husband would like to thank his wife for having made the morning coffee, his wife thanked her husband, who wakes up early in the morning and go to work, thanks to her work allows her to stay home with their children, or because it brings out the garbage. And that every day. Were calculated by about five per day, a member of the couple receives another.

I then personally tested the method in its simplicity ... and it works.

Often we only see that our man forgets the raised toilet seat, leaving dirty socks around the house, comes in with muddy shoes in the entrance with just cleaned the floor, spent Sunday afternoon in front of the TV to see the matches.

But we forget about a whole series of actions that our man does for us, like taking out the garbage, we eat with, sleep next to, share our lives in the here and now.

The critical mind takes over the mind friend ... and voila ... we see only half of the apple.

Score: digs, unspoken words, moans, in a word ... dis-ease.

Our ego is strengthened, we feel superior to that vile little man unable even to turn down a cup of water and then we call a friend and share with us as a top, all of our bad luck mate. The friend in turn clearly infarcirà us to call with the bad luck of her man and at the end of the call will come out of our ego satisfied ... all men are equal ....

But if we are careful we discover a little discomfort, we find within ourselves a dis-ease, perhaps something to do with our being and not with the ego that is not working ....

guardissimo And if only that evil would-be spy.

A spy tells us that our man is perfect as is, and that we are perfect as well as we are and together we are a couple. Furthermore, as the quality of my man, that raised the toilet does not allow me to see?

We go beyond the stupid chat between friends who complain about men with curiosity and intelligence and try to understand our man, which is so different from us, but it's a wonderful universe.

learn to truly see our man and to appreciate it as it is, that is capable of leaving the toilet seat lift but can do a million other things ..

From division to union, from O .. O, E .. And, being ego ....

Evi

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An exciting book for the weekend

Bon Bon No 4 - an exciting book for the weekend

New Goal for this weekend that we hope will be sunny and initiatives!

"Every day brings her gifts," says the photos have "stolen" in the American bakery in Florence, where the decorated cup cakes invite you to leave you with feelings that satisfy the eyes, surrounded by muffins, brownies and cookies, sugary flavors of hugs, where you breathe the passion of the owner for his work, the challenge of believing in a dream, in a foreign country, and being able to make it next to the wisdom of a simple plate that reminds you of the beauty of the world ... and as usual I started with the free association of thoughts on the spot where I will never know.
Eyes .. sweet dreams .. emotions .. .. .. projects gifts of life lessons .. .. meaning ...
and behold, suddenly I got an idea!

be able to learn in two days, passionate about history and fascinating people we met little present an injection of confidence and optimism.

I immediately thought of a book of short stories, easier to rattle off in time for a weekend.

Then I thought about the characters, of course women, the most intimate stories of the protagonists and bearers of reflection.

An overall look at the white shelves of my libraries, repositories of treasures of paper and words, and attention has flown on the left, which includes the English authors ... found!

" Models woman" by Almudena Grandes (Bloomsbury Publishing, 1997).

I like the Grandes leads between the lines a large transport visceral pasionaria and visionary in deep contact with his wounds, tells the characters so human and real, because it is capable of narrating strong themes and vivid without fear of appearing foolish. I met her through this book, then go back over his debut erotic and shocking in Age of Lulu ( Guanda, 1989 ) .

In Models of a woman, there are " seven stories, seven women condemned to defeat by the world - fat women, insecure, weak and penniless - that one day, tired of obeying, they decide to recapture the their lives, to fight with passion to feel alive, beautiful, desired, and to love ourselves, to defend their right to happiness. Seven different models of women prepared to bravely face a hostile world but to bend to their will and destiny take a look love. "(From back cover)

her heart the words of the author itself, which recounts his first attempts as a child unloved, writing short stories during the ninety minutes that was forced into silence, because people at home watching the game: throwing paper on the projection of his desires, but each time in similar versions more accurate and since then never stop. He says with this book, to settle the debt with the girl herself "sick of identity that is no longer only applies while heavily on a large dining table, without even a suspicion that will never cease to come to terms with the world. "
I dedicate this post to all our projects and dreams and the freedom to achieve them.

Happy reading!

virginia

ps. For those who want to read the previous installments of the heading, finds here

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A, no, a hundred thousand, how many women are you?

Susanna is alone after all this time, all those who believe certainties have vanished like the morning mist on the plain, when he finally gets up the sun. But Susan is not a sun that warms and illuminates: she sees only darkness.

the end despite all his efforts have gone the way of his mother.

Catherine has found that it can dare. That chick is no longer afraid that all looked down and burning cheeks for a single sideways glance of a man. Thanks Julius feels the most beautiful woman walks and safe, challenging eyes rest on her.

Paola is in crisis. There are days when you would flee far away, it feels like when fifteen years dreamed of the moment would be free to leave the house full of oppressive spaces but in the soul, but then repents, and lingers over the duties under fault is said to instill what is his place, which is not fair that you have desires so bold. Paola has nearly fifty years, two children, a husband, but would like your whole life ahead to start over.

Elisa wants more. It is no longer willing to compromise with this man that every day is forced to listen, because the hierarchy tells her she must do so. Knows to be worth well over that miserable status that was granted, because you know, if you're a man or do not know someone very well, it is obvious that you have to start from the bottom ... and show that it can do as much as those that are high in order to have the privilege to remain. Elisa tomorrow will be another way .**

I could go on for hours telling stories with excerpts of each can find a piece of itself, because at some point in our lives we were Susanna , Catherine, Paula, Elisa ... we bring in a hundred thousand women, or none?

For some of us, in crisis, the sense of self is not, there is no sound or prefer to be such, disappear, for others would be nice but, like Cinderella, magically become something else or someone else .

There are tragic fragments of lucidity in which the sense of loss is such that no longer recognizes ... where is the image of monolithic self quall'identità sure allowed us to address free of all the battles and storms?

What about resources sudden emergence of parts of ourselves that we would never imagine to have, to master and be able to incarnate as if it were the easiest thing in this world?

And then, there are questions that assail us, compelling: Who am I? And above all, which of these are representations of me? And what else can I be?

In Psychosynthesis is said that the human being has a soul manifold, populated by those who Assagioli called subpersonalities . We mistakenly perceive "one piece" when in fact in our psyche, there are a number of chaotic elements, in contradiction with each other, which come from our past interactions with significant figures, the elements of the environment in which we lived and shared experiences, but also by elements of our identity unique and unrepeatable.

These energies are organized in different "I" or the sub-personalities. They may coincide with roles or functions exercised in our daily lives (mother, daughter, wife, or the clerk, teacher, etc. ..), while others may be totally unknown to us (because buried in the unconscious), also if otherwise acting in our knowledge, because the energy that gives them life demands expression, even against our will (eg, good girl, the rebel, the insecure, the black sheep, the indispensable ...)

These can often put a spoke in the wheels, so that suddenly their needs, perhaps repressed for too long, look like a bolt from the blue to break the quiet apparent. This may have happened to Paul, if we see her as a woman who has always put before the desires of others to their own, who has made choices that led by those who claimed to know more about her, a woman who has not played, until a day spell was broken and his most "real" decided to come out, sending smoke into his quiet life (but concealed fire under the ashes) and making it, at least initially, lost.

This can happen in a positive or negative: take for example the story of Catherine. The events and significant people in his life had brought her to feel inadequate, insecure and unfeminine. Meeting with Giulio taught her that she is something else, he knows how to cultivate in her the seeds of rare self-esteem, nourishes the part (which was denied and hidden, but there was!) Like to wish well, that dare to express aspects new, playing with her man to do this seductive and then also reflected in everyday life. No longer afraid, is revealed to the world with another energy.

The key point is the recognition that he so identified with only one hand, it acted with the one at the expense of all others. A look toward inclusive welcomes every opportunity that we made and be able to direct our attention to the various parties, depending on the time, places, people. Become a master of his own multifaceted identity, using it as a resource.

" M to realize more clearly how everyone's life is a mosaic of pieces and how to understand a person, should be regarded as a piece is compressed and the other third hollow and expand, and nobody is really isolated "(Virginia Woolf)

Each of us is a universe: our diversity may seem chaotic at first, when for the first time you pay attention, but then we discover that in fact represents a ' immense wealth, because it allows us to innovate and transform what does not satisfy us, to understand ourselves better and live better with those around us.

And you, what and how many women are you? And that woman want to be?

Have a wonderful adventure of discovery of your treasures.

virginia

** the names and stories are purely fictional

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Cellulite and Awareness

go by minutes, hours, days ... sometimes you realize that even as a breath passing year, and it seems like yesterday that picture where you are in arm with your parents, who proudly show you the world the day of your first birthday ... and even minutes, hours, days and six years at the time of the first half-hour battle in the family to wrest back the night, and the first kiss, heart pounding and breath hold, and the first wound of the heart that burns and you can not seem to never heal, and again minutes, hours, days ... The first major report, what you thought would last forever, the disappointment of that friend who never would have said, the evil you have done to someone, the triumphs and defeats of life, the joy of something unexpected ... and you're back here, a jump of time, with a smile, to think back to yourself that there was in that little girl who already felt a woman ... days, months, years ... And think about the dreams and plans for the future that seemed so far away, and now that he's arrived, bringing with it questions, and budgets are not always answers, or not what you expected, or better than everything you'd hoped ...

Our lives are mysteries.

winds along the timeline that we see higher, firmer, harder, better, grieving, happier, despair, surrendered, more hopeful, disappointed, fragile, met, fortissime, più sicure, diverse... impossibile racchiudere la nostra storia in piccoli aggettivi che riescono a malapena a raccontare un presente che corre, e anche i ricordi scappano via, fra le maglie della rete della memoria quando meno te lo aspetti, obbligandoti a sospendere il giudizio che ci ha portato a dire “ormai è passato”.

Questo è crescere: fino ad un certo punto siamo certe di farlo perché aumentiamo in centimetri, poi usiamo i tacchi, simbolo di nuovi traguardi, di nuovo aumentiamo in chili, perché diventiamo mamme o perché ci siamo stufate di stare sempre a dieta, e ancora ampliamo le esperienze, le avventure e infine semplicemente ci guardiamo indietro e osserviamo.

I vaguely heard the new song on the radio and Naomi hit me the verse that reads

" have grown up without even realizing it

and now I'm here I watch,

I watch her grow

my cellulite and my new awareness "

then I sought, and listen carefully: I think telling our eyes on our lives.

Nostalgic between a commission and another, tender at times, when we value ourselves, often merciless towards our mistakes, courageous in looking forward, cutting in describing reality, envious of what can no longer be.

I tried the video and I've found a new look, including two women, one mature and one younger - do not know if it is adapted for a film which I have already discussed ( Female against Males ) - but it is played much on the theme of time passing and the beauty that fades (although Signoris Carla is a beautiful woman!) and other certainties and the acquisition of awareness seems to make stronger, more disenchanted, no longer willing to compromise ... But the video ends with the apparent "revenge" of the couple that "delete" in one go bad thoughts with the beautiful, statuesque girls in a swimming pool by throwing a hair dryer!

And yet again the challenge ... males against females, young against old?

I I hope however that cellulite that accumulates under the skin can be used to drive my new messages to all the young women walk behind me, I guess another final, where the woman who looks back, and includes also includes in his eyes stories of all those who will want to share with you his adventures, including her, to feel that you have not lived wasting time despite failures and disappointments, and to bring to himself all the nuances of a woman who is States and has helped make it what it is today.

Why life is not only growing, but you will learn and be taught.

Today I want to say thanks to all the women I have taught us anything, that I have seen in well-heeled and ostentatious youth, because in spite of the awareness, did not feel a void to lose, and that they have taught me too.

virginia

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laws that protect women

Dear friends,

there are fewer than 3 articles of the penal code that protects the woman to 360 degrees.

are the crime of abuse in the family, the crime of threatening and stalking or persecution.

Here you list them:

Article 572 - Abuse in the family or to children

Anyone, except for cases mentioned in the previous abuses a person's family or a child under fourteen years, or a person under its authority ', or entrusted to him because of education, education, care, supervision or custody, or in the exercise of a profession or an art, and' punished with imprisonment from one to five years.

If the fact results in a serious personal injury, the imprisonment shall be four to eight years if it results in serious injury, imprisonment from seven to fifteen years if they resulting in death, imprisonment from twelve to twenty years.

Article 612 - Threat

Any threat to others and give an unfair 'punished, on complaint of the victim, a fine of up to one hundred thousand lire. If the threat is' serious, oe 'made in one of the ways specified in Article 339, the penalty' of up to one year imprisonment and shall proceed. The penalty is increased if the violence or the threat and 'committed with weapons, or from person misrepresented, or more' people gathered, written or anonymous, or in a symbolic way (Example. sentence does not know who I am?), Or making use of force resulting intimidation by secret associations, existing or suppositories.

If violence or threat and 'committed by more' than five people together, even if only by the use of weapons by any of them, or by more 'than ten people, without the use of weapons, the penalty 'in cases provided for by the first part of Article 336 and Articles 337 and 338, imprisonment from three to fifteen years, and in the case provided by paragraph of Article 336, imprisonment from two to eight years.

The provisions referred to in the preceding paragraph shall also apply, unless the fact constitutes a serious crime, where violence or the threat of being committed by the release or use of blunt instruments or other objects liable to offend, including fireworks, so as to create danger to people.

Article 612 bis - persecution or Stalking

Unless the act constitutes a serious crime, and 'punished with imprisonment from six months to four years anyone with repeated conduct, threatening or harassing someone in such a way as to cause a serious and continuing state of anxiety or fear, or give rise to a well-founded fear for the safety of self or a relative or person bound by the same loving relationship or to compel the same to alter their lifestyles.

punishment and 'increased if the act' committed by a spouse legally separated or divorced or person who has been linked to emotional relationship to the victim.

punishment and 'increased by up to half if the act' committed against a minor, a pregnant woman or a disabled person referred to in Article 3 of Law 5 February 1992 No 104, or by a person with arms or misrepresented.

Crime and 'punished on complaint of the victim. The deadline for bringing the lawsuit and 'six months. We shall, however, ex officio if the act 'committed against a child or a disabled person referred to in Article 3 of Law 5 February 1992, No 104, as well as 'when the fact is' connected with another crime for which you must carry out an official.

For there the criminal case of stalking or stalking introduced by dl February 23, 2009, No 11 are needed as many as 3 elements

1) conduct a "typical" of the offender, 2) the recurrence of such conduct, and 3) the emergence of a particular state of mind in the victim .

1) The misconduct in question is usually due in the classic case of criminal threats and harassment , already planned and sanctioned by individual lawmakers. There is a threat if the offender to the victim a bad future prospects, so as to seriously disturb the tranquility of the victim. The harassment, however, sees if it changes so annoying or intrusive psychic equilibrium of the average person.

2) Such conduct must be repeated, the serial in the sense that the acts described above must happen in time. The continuation and recurrence over a period of time is a constitutive element. Therefore, these individual acts, if put into effect in one instance, will not integrate the criminal case under Article 612 bis cp but the more "traditional" type of "threat" or "harassment", even if you continue these ducts are in place more than a single time. An example of this behavior can be phone calls, text messages, e-mail, "surprise visits", sending flowers or gifts, obsessive behaviors to unwanted attention stalking out of the place or working from home, intentional damage to property owned by you (the machine, the mailbox, the front door, etc..) threats to people close to or bound by a bond of affection

3) Finally, such unlawful acts must cause to the victim " a serious mental health problems or to determine a justifiable fear for personal safety of self or someone close or otherwise to affect significantly its way of life." With the event of serious psychological problems, given the vagueness of the figure is meant only and exclusively characterized by pathological stress, a clinical defined severe and persistent. As for the second event resulting from the unlawful conduct, or the fear for personal safety or their own, such is the case whenever the victim as a result of the conduct of the offender, have "fear" for their safety. This mood must be evaluated in practice, according to all the elements that characterize the story and must be reported if the ex ante on the assessment of an average person. Finally, the last of the events listed above cover the case where, as a result of persecution carried out, the victim is forced against his will and could not do otherwise, to amend relevant and rewarding lifestyles.

prosecution within six months

The crime is punishable on complaint of the victim. The deadline for bringing the lawsuit is six months. Proceed office, however, that said, if the offense is committed against a minor or disabled person and when the fact is connected with another crime for which you must carry out an official.

The warning to the harasser
The person who believes that he may conduct offended by elements of the offense under Article 612-bis, as long as no formal complaint, may make required warning in against the harasser. The request is sent without delay to the Chief that, taken as necessary information from the investigative bodies and heard people informed of the facts, if it considers the application based, verbally warned the person against whom the measure has been requested, requesting it to behave complies with the law and drafting the minutes. If the subject continues warned to harass his victim, we shall proceed against him and the pain is compounded at least third. may request the competent authority of formal notice of the same author.
Where there are specific elements that are considered well founded risk of recurrence of the offense under Article 612-bis, the public security authorities, authorized by the prosecutor shall, formally warning the suspect from committing further acts of persecution.
The warning is notified to the suspect with the forms referred to in Articles 148 to 171 of the Code of Criminal Procedure.

The offense under Article. 612-a is different from that of domestic violence, in one hand because the stalking occurs mainly outside of the relationship of cohabitation, and secondly because the crime did not materialize in a physical abuse of the victim but only psychological.

Evi

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Stalking become persecution when the attention

It 'difficult to talk about stalking , reducing it to stalking and chasing, because the "syndrome of obsessive stalker" can be expressed in obsessive conduct ranging from simply providing care and pseudo-affective intent to result in real threats, physical violence or psychological.

becomes even more blurred the border when they cross a virtual world ... where all the information, privacy, movement, passion, even the thoughts and emotions are shared on this diary (not like most secret in the past) is now called facebook, because the stalking starts from the frantic search for as much information as possible about the world of the other.

is true, even there we can have a small security lock such as those which sealed the secrets on paper, because you can check with just one click any picture hidden in the privacy options and magically everything that concerns us is accessible only to a limited audience of friends, or friends of friends, at the most ... but when this group of people are assigned a number (100, 200, 300?) perhaps we are not so safe, as the statistics say that most stalkers people are not so unknown (many times even ex-boyfriends / s)?

is not my intention to alarm unfounded, but this is the National Week of prevention of stalking (more info http://www.stalking.it/ ) and I think it's appropriate reflection in a small way, to know, know, he can act.

molestatorio behavior manifests itself in attempts to communicate to a victim's thoughts, emotions (of love but also hatred or revenge), but also needs impulses and desires, in whatever way possible (by letter, to any email or SMS, to vandalism on walls and personal items, such as a car or scooter).

addition to this, the climax of excessive behaviors, can get to actual conduct of stalking, attempted to contact and direct confrontation, around the street, at work or at home. All this happens in a repeated, continuous and relentless.

This obviously creates a feeling of anxiety and helplessness in the person who is to undergo all that, but not always recognized in all its gravity, because often, those who put in place, had a ' important emotional and you can not believe it gets that far.

When it comes then the result of the end of a relationship (in news reports confirm that the frequency), the victim is also to deal with feelings of guilt related to its decision to end the romance, trying to tolerate and then give another chance to vent his anger, thinking to help him, despite the doubts and fear for their safety.

Recent studies have attempted to classify different types of stalker, on the basis of the criminological literature, pointing out that you can not create a uniform profile, as they weave psychopathological personality traits do not always, with characteristics that change from case to case and from person to person.

desire, however, to generalize, there are five hypothetical profiles, distinguished on the grounds underlying these behaviors:

1. the " affected " is one who acts in the wake of revenge for a wrong suffered rejection or hypothetical. He has little contact with reality, which tends to interpret according to its criteria, looking for confirmation of what it considers valid.
2. The " in need of affection " is one who throws the victim a number of features (not always present in reality) that approach the idea of \u200b\u200bher ideal lover or partner , which is required attention, affection and physical closeness. The rejection of others is denied, interpreting it as a block or obstruction, to help remove to fulfill your dream of love. His behavior may also take the express request of eroticism.
3. The " incompetent suitor " is the one who pours on the behavior of persistent and clumsy approach, due to its inability to relate and express their feelings in correctly. Reacts violently and refused to attack, but often ends up changing the subject of desire, without perpetrating his advances for a long time.
4. The " rejected " is usually a person or a former neighbor who is rejected and does it aim to re-establish a relationship or revenge abandonment. Both solutions, in fact, are regarded as unconsciously maintaining the link, preferable to the absolute loss of the other, that, for problems related to personal history, would be interpreted as a real annihilation of self.
5. The " predator 'attitudes takes the form of paraphilia, where the element fear of becoming a cause for excitement for the purposes for which this sexual behavior tends (may be pedophiles or fetish).

What can you do?

not be silent, not to isolate themselves for fear or shame, or even to protect each other because of what happened. Being able to talk about it, ask for help, if necessary the police to see if there can be extremes in order to act immediately.

virginia

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weekend a couple of well-being

Viewed that this was the week began Monday with a devoted love, could not finish it with a bon bon of welfare to be shared with your loved one.

And in case you have not (again) this treasure, do not worry, proposals may be in some cases even declined in the singular, or use later.

(As usual, if you are new readers, find the previous installments here and here )

Bon bon n.3 - Pampering for two

but from a few fundamental points:

1. not decide to do anything if you do not want
2. Create an atmosphere of complicity, as if it were a Game
3. ready for surprises ...

It 'obvious that we must share this little "crazy" plan with your partner, so that there is disassembled with other programs, tasks, visits, any other business!

is really important to the climate of closeness and intimacy, because if you are not accustomed to such impromptu your spouse might think that you are not completely in you! :-)

decide whether to apply these ideas in a single day, a few hours or all weekend.

• Hello! Just open your eyes, give yourself a good morning, a kiss, a caress, stringetevi strong, make love ... celebrate what is important is that we're looking for each other.
• The ritual of breakfast: that if you love breakfast in bed, than at the bar or brunch, it does not matter. Take time to this special moment, let filter the sun from the windows, prepare what you like, or indulge in cappuccino and newspaper sitting at a table outside, in some cases came hand in hand, as if for the first time.
• Pamper yourself at every meal, choosing to cook your own meals, or eat at that restaurant that evokes memories, or an impromptu picnic out of town.
• Dress with care, perhaps even with the habit which he likes so much ...
• Write a note, a thought, a poem and leave it hidden in strategic locations ...
• Pamper yourself, massaggiatevi, stringetevi, stropicciatevi: physical contact is often the bearer of messages that words can not convey.
• At the same time, however, talk, dialogue, you will encounter on issues and topics that you care.
• Go to the library to search for books (a nice game is to try to find the book to each other and say why you chose), or choose a movie to watch on the sofa under a warm embrace covered.
• decide to spend the day in a manner that suits you best, trying to meet the needs of both, or finding solutions creative and different from usual.
• Date to fantasy and your desires ...

good weekend and have fun!

virginia

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There Night We Never see the day against

In this dark and dreary day, the sun a few days ago seems a distant memory, I will share with you a beautiful song, from "The reality knows of bread", a collection of essays and pondering Don Luigi Verdi: talk of crisis, transformation and rebirth.

"I marks on the skin all my crisis and I know how long and how much, like a magical fear, I wrap.

difficult to understand that sometimes that fear is realized and that the magic is in the depths of the night you turn on the light.

If we want to see beyond the night can not try to measure it, we can only fill us with hope and remain open to the idea that no night is only night, but it is also Another . When you are in crisis and this view seems to contradict everything you have left only the extreme courage to make up your mind, your body, your soul to hope against hope .

I always thought every crisis is not a ruin, but an opportunity. But it is only if we remain faithful and open, if we remain, despite the hardness of the test, land that dream, knowing that sooner or later arise in us the light of a response to our shadow.

Only a well-worked ground can become a propitious ground, we are told the farmers. For this, paradoxically, a time of difficulty and disruptions can prove to be the best time for a new birth every birth is preceded by the contractions, any new lighting or serve their growing season in hell, each step of initiation is marked by the rhythm of dark nights.

And I like to think that every crisis has the effect of stones that Tom Thumb, in the wood, they always manage to show the way.

Every crisis then allows us to rise above the surface of the world to see that the fog unclimbed peaks are evident to those who live in the valley.

" before me have broken through" (Psalm 31:9).

comes a day when, in your shadow or your labyrinth, you drift unexpected that shows you the way inside nonsense.

Deep in the night, the darkness of the crisis, there is always a light to which we, or coming toward us. "

Waiting for the sun's rays come back again to kiss our skin ...

wish you all a wonderful day!

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Females Males

Saturday I went to the cinema to see the second part of the diptych Brizzi, "Males Females against" I wanted to see to what extent the stereotypical image of the two genres could get, to comedy and tear smiles.

Not that I expected a socio-anthropological documentary on gender differences, but even such a blaze of clichés. I came out dejected.

The common thread throughout the film, which served as a trade union between the different episodes (with peaks of authoritarianism in some real!) was to emphasize how the women to claim all costs to change their comrades, but with guilt, expressed tenderly in the episode, played by Luciana Litizzetto as a manipulator of other people's lives, that "reprograms" in his like the life of her husband - taking advantage of a memory leak - exacerbated by the fact that it is devoted only to Juventus, friends and, (a script) lover.

really have this image of our men, as eternal Peter Pan, unable to remember an important date, only fans of football, fantasy football, friends (who location and bar, game table or rock band does not matter), which are likely to awkwardly hit a light pole, because lost in fixing the seat of a twenty?

And men really like harpies live there, acting like children who have made a prank, having to live a lie because otherwise fear of being subjected to reprimand or, at worst, of being driven out of the house?

And then, if you move away from us, because we have not been complied with or betrayed or whatever, when he returned with his tail between his legs, repentant and transformed (after demonstrating worse) we are really happy to start again, knowing that the input it was only the wish of their dying mother in the family wants to see reunited? It's just that love is seen as a sacrifice of their dreams and passions, by virtue of a quiet life?

All these questions have filled my thoughts and all this is told in the film, with almost all instill a happy ending, with women who understand that perhaps they are to exaggerate and become involved in and complicit ... better late than ever. Men apologize for misdeeds and fall within the daily routine. And they all lived happily ever after??

The room was packed, mostly couples, and I imagined what thoughts crossed their minds at certain times laughter through gritted teeth: it is true it is a film (and one of the worst I've seen lately), but does represent a slice of life, and apparently those clichés hiding at the bottom of small truths.

Some bad habits take root every day, thanks to the routine, the unwillingness to confront the things steadily and assiduously.

You may not want to be with another with the hope of being able to do this change, hoping that by osmosis falls in love with things that we like (and this applies to both male and female). You may be respecting the diversity of the other couples, but not barely tolerated, because after some minutes in time trouble, lasted for years, they become unbearable.

Conventional wisdom has a funny saying that goes "the oaks are not lemons."

The most wise of us, knows that the other will never be anything other than what it is, but our unconscious is likely to hold your hand until the end.

What can you do?

If we place ourselves in kind of conflict does not get out alive: they will always be those who go crazy for a ball on a green lawn and we lose those hours to make the rounds of the shops and talk about unnecessary things.

The relationship can and must rely on other communication channels.

The complicity of a couple is something that is alien to the passions, is something that is based on the satisfaction of mutual needs deep and true.

In relationships at the beginning we need to ask sincerely if there are other issues that bother us, without putting our heads in the sand and wait for better times. In this case it needs to be addressed immediately and seek a joint solution in two, if it is modifiable aspects, or reluctantly, decide to listen to the wise that "knows" that the developments will not be rosy.

In-standing relationships, raises the question "on what basis did we get here?"

not make the mistake of "throwing the baby out with the bathwater."

I think there is a chance to meet (and I read it the happy ending a bit 'dull and obvious the film), as long as there is reduced to pretending that nothing has happened.

need commitment, responsibility, will, courage.

It is two to enjoy but also to make mistakes, and more so to begin again, and then be faced, trying to find out what has happened, as well blame the passage of time, which is never solely responsible.

We are not content to say "he / she has done / to such" because it can be a defense against actually see what we can reveal the soul of the other.

crisis, any crisis, it can really represent a new opportunity, provided that two of us wanting to cross the ford to the mainland.

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distance

I really like this poem because I appreciate the courage of these lines of love and respect.

In fact, the love of a man / woman is also, and above all, respect for ourselves and for recognition so that we can love someone who makes us feel bad, but at a distance.

Ludina Ben says "is too cruel, desolate, hostile, uncivil your heart because I can still hug you .." and then physically take away from this love, as the self-respect requires it to him.

However, this man does not exclude from his heart, because it recognizes that this love is part of her "because I recognize myself through love and pain I feel for you. "

And then live within them, but away from this man and transforms him into "be love", a universal love to all, unconditionally.

in systemic constellations I often see that what heals is not excluded from our heart of a person, a theme, a situation, but the love from a distance. E 'awareness, even and especially body, which in that situation you can not stay longer and requires removal, but with love and respect first and foremost to those of us who decided to live that experience and then to the other people involved.

Therefore I dedicate this poem to all of you, friends and virtual friends, so that through awareness we begin a transformative journey of love, we begin to be love, that heart that "beats for all."

With your permission, I offer a loving thought in Regina, a mother of sixty years is beginning to love a child remotely violent ....

These beautiful poems are the result of the awareness of Ludina Severino (1829-1900), a countess who dedicated this poem to trevisana domineering and violent husband who loved forever .. but keeping a distance.

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Never ever

Never, I though I'll stop loving you.

And mind you always take you in my heart as my own.

You are my one:

Ritov & only love, recognized, loved devoutly

of my life on this earth.

But though my heart is yours forever

I never come back to you.

accept the posting because there are eternal

adverbs "always and never"

today my heart feels the way down and my mind

worships

sentimental but your misery, your

unadorned poor heart, your soul

ungenerous,

damage from roots of your cruel, sick of your bad intentions

not allow me to share or to comply with. So you never

regard as my forever is one way.

It always has been.

I will remain. Forever.

E 'generosity, a gift, an absolute song

which you can not use to humiliate me, to torture

,

to make me cry,

to see the desperation in my eyes, to make me pay

the guilt of loving you,

to inflict the damage that was inflicted on you,

for riccattarmi,

to deny me again.

You do not deserve the intimacy

to see me grow old next to you

and it is too cruel, desolate, hostile

uncivilized

your heart because I can still hug,

talk, tell you with my heart 's I feel more in, drink some

'of water after the coffee, watching the summer sunset

silent as if the night could not swallow the day

and walk together in the evening, half an hour

before the park closes

s'addormentino and birds among the branches.

But even

you will always be with me

every time I think about it,

will talk, think, watch the sunset

and say "never, ever" to my heart.

Because I love you with the best and the worst part

with myself.

Because I recognize myself

through love and pain

I feel for you.

Why I when I go from this earth

are sure to find

in time and space

of all love forever waiting for me.

And while I live I will love a gift

I feel for you

to all those who love indoor

I have ever had.

Having no stars, no memories,

no kisses, no whispering,

who have never or always.

who need a heart

you have filled with expectations.

A heart that bleeds constantly,

that does not belong to anyone,

that beats for everyone who knows what it means

not only exist but

BE LOVE.

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Post St. Valentino! Why

beyond the consumerist connotations that this day holds, gives us an opportunity to reflect on the meaning of love, however you want to conjugate: in couples, between parents and children, between siblings, between friends ...

Someone once said that "sometimes words get sick - the word love is one of them - and we have a duty to heal."

I want to take responsibility to try to restore the original meaning of this word so worn from use, but which never fails to infinite wealth which it bears.

Rather than define it, love must be experienced, witnessed, tried the hard way.

And we do not live only in the ecstasy of the meeting, fall in love suddenly exploding like a volcano, or the beginning of magical encounter, which finally seems to satisfy our hungry hearts.

Love is a feeling of calm, understanding and confidence, is a state of grace, inhabited by moments of joy but also of difficulty, lies on the passage of time, visited by gratitude and nourished with the care of self and other .

Love is a traveler, who never tires of knowing, to experiment, to dare, but in respect for the identity of its guests, their homes, their lives.

" The only way to be a deep knowledge of the act of love, this act than thought, beyond words. It is the daring dip in the experience of union. But to fully understand the act of love, I need to know your loved one psychologically and myself objectively, I see what is in fact abandon the illusions, the picture that I have twisted her. Only by knowing objectively a human being are capable of penetrating the deepest essence of the act of love "

(E. Fromm, The Art of Love )

Love is a journey, not a place.

really know the other is an amazing adventure that never has an end point, because every day life we \u200b\u200bcan give space to unexplored parts of ourselves that those around us can agree or stupor receive as an offense ... but this is necessary.

" When love calls you, follow him,

even though its streets are steep and arduous.

And when his wings enfold you indulge him,

even if the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.

[...] in you all this love will carry you to understand the secrets of your hearts, and in that knowledge can become the heart of the fragments of life "

(Khalil Gibran)

Freedom of Love, you can not do otherwise than be myself, because then I salute to the possibility of who is beside me to do the same, giving one another the opportunity to grow and move forward together, step by step, brick by brick, crisis after crisis.

I find the meaning of all this in the words of a traveler than a soul that gave the world masterpieces of words and emotions:

" maybe love is the process by which we bring you gently to yourself "

(Antoine De Saint Exupery)

Love is when you do not expect others to become what I want it to be, but I accompany it gently and present, share, while achieving what is safe, that I may do the same with her.

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