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Stalking become persecution when the attention

It 'difficult to talk about stalking , reducing it to stalking and chasing, because the "syndrome of obsessive stalker" can be expressed in obsessive conduct ranging from simply providing care and pseudo-affective intent to result in real threats, physical violence or psychological.

becomes even more blurred the border when they cross a virtual world ... where all the information, privacy, movement, passion, even the thoughts and emotions are shared on this diary (not like most secret in the past) is now called facebook, because the stalking starts from the frantic search for as much information as possible about the world of the other.

is true, even there we can have a small security lock such as those which sealed the secrets on paper, because you can check with just one click any picture hidden in the privacy options and magically everything that concerns us is accessible only to a limited audience of friends, or friends of friends, at the most ... but when this group of people are assigned a number (100, 200, 300?) perhaps we are not so safe, as the statistics say that most stalkers people are not so unknown (many times even ex-boyfriends / s)?

is not my intention to alarm unfounded, but this is the National Week of prevention of stalking (more info http://www.stalking.it/ ) and I think it's appropriate reflection in a small way, to know, know, he can act.

molestatorio behavior manifests itself in attempts to communicate to a victim's thoughts, emotions (of love but also hatred or revenge), but also needs impulses and desires, in whatever way possible (by letter, to any email or SMS, to vandalism on walls and personal items, such as a car or scooter).

addition to this, the climax of excessive behaviors, can get to actual conduct of stalking, attempted to contact and direct confrontation, around the street, at work or at home. All this happens in a repeated, continuous and relentless.

This obviously creates a feeling of anxiety and helplessness in the person who is to undergo all that, but not always recognized in all its gravity, because often, those who put in place, had a ' important emotional and you can not believe it gets that far.

When it comes then the result of the end of a relationship (in news reports confirm that the frequency), the victim is also to deal with feelings of guilt related to its decision to end the romance, trying to tolerate and then give another chance to vent his anger, thinking to help him, despite the doubts and fear for their safety.

Recent studies have attempted to classify different types of stalker, on the basis of the criminological literature, pointing out that you can not create a uniform profile, as they weave psychopathological personality traits do not always, with characteristics that change from case to case and from person to person.

desire, however, to generalize, there are five hypothetical profiles, distinguished on the grounds underlying these behaviors:

1. the " affected " is one who acts in the wake of revenge for a wrong suffered rejection or hypothetical. He has little contact with reality, which tends to interpret according to its criteria, looking for confirmation of what it considers valid.
2. The " in need of affection " is one who throws the victim a number of features (not always present in reality) that approach the idea of \u200b\u200bher ideal lover or partner , which is required attention, affection and physical closeness. The rejection of others is denied, interpreting it as a block or obstruction, to help remove to fulfill your dream of love. His behavior may also take the express request of eroticism.
3. The " incompetent suitor " is the one who pours on the behavior of persistent and clumsy approach, due to its inability to relate and express their feelings in correctly. Reacts violently and refused to attack, but often ends up changing the subject of desire, without perpetrating his advances for a long time.
4. The " rejected " is usually a person or a former neighbor who is rejected and does it aim to re-establish a relationship or revenge abandonment. Both solutions, in fact, are regarded as unconsciously maintaining the link, preferable to the absolute loss of the other, that, for problems related to personal history, would be interpreted as a real annihilation of self.
5. The " predator 'attitudes takes the form of paraphilia, where the element fear of becoming a cause for excitement for the purposes for which this sexual behavior tends (may be pedophiles or fetish).

What can you do?

not be silent, not to isolate themselves for fear or shame, or even to protect each other because of what happened. Being able to talk about it, ask for help, if necessary the police to see if there can be extremes in order to act immediately.

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