Chagall - Birthday (1915)
There is an island near Hawaii where there are no separations between the pairs.
The researchers tried to study the phenomenon with great dismay and found that these couples thanking each other every day for every thing that was a component of the couple for each other. For example, the husband would like to thank his wife for having made the morning coffee, his wife thanked her husband, who wakes up early in the morning and go to work, thanks to her work allows her to stay home with their children, or because it brings out the garbage. And that every day. Were calculated by about five per day, a member of the couple receives another.
I then personally tested the method in its simplicity ... and it works.
Often we only see that our man forgets the raised toilet seat, leaving dirty socks around the house, comes in with muddy shoes in the entrance with just cleaned the floor, spent Sunday afternoon in front of the TV to see the matches.
But we forget about a whole series of actions that our man does for us, like taking out the garbage, we eat with, sleep next to, share our lives in the here and now.
The critical mind takes over the mind friend ... and voila ... we see only half of the apple.
Score: digs, unspoken words, moans, in a word ... dis-ease.
Our ego is strengthened, we feel superior to that vile little man unable even to turn down a cup of water and then we call a friend and share with us as a top, all of our bad luck mate. The friend in turn clearly infarcirà us to call with the bad luck of her man and at the end of the call will come out of our ego satisfied ... all men are equal ....
But if we are careful we discover a little discomfort, we find within ourselves a dis-ease, perhaps something to do with our being and not with the ego that is not working ....
guardissimo And if only that evil would-be spy.
A spy tells us that our man is perfect as is, and that we are perfect as well as we are and together we are a couple. Furthermore, as the quality of my man, that raised the toilet does not allow me to see?
We go beyond the stupid chat between friends who complain about men with curiosity and intelligence and try to understand our man, which is so different from us, but it's a wonderful universe.
learn to truly see our man and to appreciate it as it is, that is capable of leaving the toilet seat lift but can do a million other things ..
From division to union, from O .. O, E .. And, being ego ....
Evi
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